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6/8/2022 2 Comments What You Seek For Lies Within You, Stop, Take A Pause And Tap Into Your True Power!Are you always seeking for the answers outside? Do you feel you are completely responsible for your life? Today, I want to remind you of the base principle of your life which forms the foundation that is nothing but taking 100% responsibility of your life! But, this time with a short and a wonderful story. Do you like stories? If yes, then grab a cup of tea of coffee whatever you like and let's dive in deep.
There is a wonderful story about a man who is out walking one night and comes upon another man down on his knees looking for something under a street lamp. The passerby inquires as to what the other man is looking for something under a street lamp. He answers that he is looking for his lost key. The passerby offers to help and get down on his knees and helps him search for the key. After an hour of fruitless searching, he says - "We have looked it everywhere for it and we have not found it. Are you sure that you lost it here?" The other man replies "No, I lost it in my house, but there is more light out here under the street lamp!!" What did you learn? It holds a very important lesson for each one of us and the lesson is stop looking for the answers to why you have not created the life and results you want for it is you who creates the quality of the life you lead and the results you produce. You, yes you! no one else is responsible for what you do and how you behave. Once you realize the fact that you have created the current conditions, then it's easy for you to un-create and re-create them at your own will! As when you get the awareness of something, that moment is the last for you to look back because from that moment, you start to curate your own path :) You must be wondering that "Gargi talks about this topic very often!" and that's the truth, because I want you to know that even if you know this principle, you still blame, complain and make excuses. Remember you are the cause of all your experiences, if you keep on doing what you have always done - you will keep on getting what you have always got, and this is nothing but just another term for insanity. Everything that you experience today is the result of the choices that you have made in your past, don't feel guilty about it. Do you know why? Because the person you are today would not have existed on this planet if your younger self didn't take those decisions. If you knew better, you would have done better, so be proud of every action and choice you make, as life according to me is based on choices and consequences. It's all a matter of attitude and behavior towards an event, and this can be either defined by your reaction or by your response. Always note that you have control over these three things -
The next time you find yourself getting back into the same trap, here are some questions which you can ask yourself -
Once you start going deep and you commit that you will be the best version of yours in the coming years, it's guaranteed that you will make it! Either accept that you are making the choice to stay where you are, take charge of it and stop complaining or take the risk of doing something new and different to create your life exactly the way you want it! And if you don't believe me - don't argue and call this stuff "bad" or "useless". It's better to first implement for the next 30 days where you act as if you were responsible and in each circumstance, you believe that you are playing a role, and then see whether it works for you or not. Gamify your life and whenever you find something new, start to live it on a 30 day experiment to check what kind of results they bring into your life.. Stop making excuses, like "I don't have time", "My parents don't allow me", "She always behaves like this with me", etc., I know this thing for sure that those who decide they want to do something for themselves, no matter whatever the circumstances are, they stand up and make a change. And those who are too comfortable being a victim, they don't do anything to make a change! In which category do you fall - A or B? Today's blog is a short one and there's a reason for it because now I want you to realize the importance of this! It's dedicated to the souls wo are lost and are not able to overcome their challenges, I hope my words hit you hard. I love you so much and I salute you for who you are, you don't have to change other people, you just have to change yourself, if not now, then when? Do comment down below your take on it and I would be more than happy to see what's there in you and did you get any bulb on moments or not. Thank you for being the way you are, you are needed!
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Shamanth K S
6/8/2022 08:46:53 am
Really Bulb on Moments thank you Gargi Arya for this post.
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6/10/2022 06:54:40 am
Thank you arya for this powerful post. Indeed to see external changes in our lives,we must embrace inward changes.life is a product of our choices and the earlier we take full responsibility for our lives,the better for us.Our responses to situations will always be the key to the realities we hope to see.
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AuthorHello, I am Gargi Arya, the motivational speaker of ADJOA HTC and author of the book 'The Lion Hearted Soul'. I am 14 years old. I study in 10th grade in Ryan International School, Ghaziabad. To me, writing is just my thoughts flowing from my mind to the tips of my fingers and painting the pages of my precious diary. This website is all about you and for you. Remember treasure lies in solving mysteries. Let the power of self love reinvent yourself to create your dream life ! |