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12/21/2022 1 Comment Three Powerful Lessons I Learnt Recently Which Can Help You Reflect, and Reboot Your Personal Life!Hey there! I hope you are doing well. It's been a long time since I connected with you through a blog, so I decided to push myself and take action. But, before I begin - I want to ask you - How excited are you for 2023? as it's around the corner and before, we wrap up this beautiful year, I would like to share the three powerful lessons I learned recently from my life, specially in the personal space. While many of you feel "Gargi is doing such a great job, she is the powerhouse of positivity, she is so consistent in her work", yes - it is the truth but you know, I recently learnt the difference between personal and professional life. If someone is doing awesome in their professional area, that doesn't mean they are keeping well in their personal lives. Would you agree? 1. It's okay to feel overwhelmed even when you have the clarity of your "destiny"For those of you who feel "I don't have clarity" and you keep on yelling at yourself and blame others for whatever situations you are in, you feel "how should I start?", let me tell you the people who have immense amount of clarity- they too go through this phase when too many things are on their plate and they are not able to handle it. I will tell you - recently, I am actually doing a full "REBOOT' and "REVAMP" of the person I have become and what all I have done and launched in order to transform more lives and reach to more people, educate, and empower them so they can start to live their best lives. I tried to introduce so many things at once, and that now - I started to feel overwhelmed, I started to feel "What is going on in my life?" but the one solution I found out was - "WHEN IT BECOMES HARD TO MANAGE, SPEND SOME TIME IN SOLITUDE TO KNOW YOURSELF, MAKE A PLAN AND WHEN YOU FEEL NOW YOU CAN - GO AHEAD WITH THE EXECUTION!". You won't believe I had so many plans - but inside I was feeling stressed out, burnt out but once I implemented this strategy - I got to know what are the real "game changers" for me now! It's all about exploring different methods till you get the right one that works! So if you are someone who is feeling the same in your life, let me tell you sweetheart - you are not alone and you can never be! It's a phase and this shall too pass! I am sharing my personal experiences with you so you know that not everyone at all the time can stay motivated - but the ability to push yourself even when the times are hard -is the best thing you can ever do! Even today, I was not feeling too well and I have been struggling with these issues since last 2 months, but could you make out? no, right? It's okay, just push yourself and focus on the things which matter to you the most. 2. Health Is WealthDo you agree that health is wealth? Without you being fit and fine, you cannot enjoy your life. Without you being fit and fine, you cannot enjoy your work even if you love it like anything. From past few weeks - I had been facing the issues of "stress" a lot and I just wanted to give up but do you think "I DID?" No, I didn't! Do you know why because that is the power of having a strong why. What I learnt was that we need to pay attention to our health also if we are progressing in each area of our lives. What one activity do you plan to start from today which is going to help you fill your cup? As I truly believe this - when your cup is filled with happiness. everything around you seems awesome and you never carry the luggage of life, but when your cup is filled with negativity and sadness, you attract the same vibe from the universe! Pay attention to your health - mentally, physically. and emotionally as it's important. Take those small steps in order to take the big ones :) 3. The Journey To The Top Is Always Going To Be Alone!With all these personal struggles, lately I had been feeling lonely and alone, and whenever I used to sit alone - I would start feeling "Why life is so dark?" and do you know why these things happen? When we become too extroverted, and we don't steal time from others to feed ourselves with our own love and thus since many days, I am keeping most of the time to spend in solitude so I can fill the self love gap which had been going on. Due to all of these personal problems, I was on the verge of giving up - but could you make out? Absolutely not! Because, that is how I try to keep a balance. Remember each one of us are climbing up a ladder or a mountain and this journey is going to be hard. We are either tired of feeling too much or feeling nothing. If you are someone who could resonate with all these points, I want you to know "THIS SHALL TOO PASS", life is all about losing and finding yourself again and again, so don't worry if sometimes you get off the track!
I feel its better to get off the track sometimes so we can learn some of the greatest lessons and implement them, and come back with a new spirit from within! What do you say? Let me know your thoughts below in the comments :) Thank you so much for being who you are! You inspire me :) Gargi Arya India's Youngest Life Coach & Trainer
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Arvind Janardhanam
12/21/2022 06:20:36 am
Hi Gargi,
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AuthorHello, I am Gargi Arya, the motivational speaker of ADJOA HTC and author of the book 'The Lion Hearted Soul'. I am 14 years old. I study in 10th grade in Ryan International School, Ghaziabad. To me, writing is just my thoughts flowing from my mind to the tips of my fingers and painting the pages of my precious diary. This website is all about you and for you. Remember treasure lies in solving mysteries. Let the power of self love reinvent yourself to create your dream life ! |